So the question has arisen about how brutally honest I have been on the blog and that it seems that I am not over a bunch of issues that I have written about. Well I have taken a bit of time and thought about that very hard for a few days.
Well one the one hand if I am totally honest about my experiences then someone else can learn about what I went through and maybe learn something from it. Then you the reader can also comment on it and then it becomes a sharing experience that more points of view can completely make sense of it. Does that sound confusing? It does when I write it. But some how makes logical sense to do it. It's almost like an idiots guide of what not to do or do in life. Take it in and learn from it.
Then there is the other side of the page where you shouldn't write about such things for it may come back to bite me in the ass. Things about relationships and betrayal and everything else is deeply personal and then people won't look at me the same way and feel sorry for me that I have had a rough year or week.
And then there is the shock value about the subjects I write about as well. Some people made comments that what they read makes them feel uncomfortable and that it's like reading a diary. Well yes it is. This is a sharing diary that we all can participate in. And yes some of the subjects are very personal and are raw. But if we can't talk about it then how do we learn from it?
I guess it all comes down to your comfort level and what you are willing to read or share to help others to experience the life lessons we all go through. If you can watch the Bachelorette or Big Brother on tv which is very voyeuristic then you should be able to read this blog and hopefully take something positive away from it.
Ciao for now
Actually I think "vanilla" refers to normal run-of-the-mill missionary sex at night in the bedroom..LOL Chocolate means the other end of the spectrum with some kink mixed in. I guess maybe strawberry means the halfway point between the two?
ReplyDeleteI think that there are people out there, a large number of women, who have repressed their sexuality because they don't want to be labeled sluts or tramps etc. When men have a large number of sexual conquests they're seen as lucky but if it's a woman then she's a slut. I know I was like that for the longest time, afraid to try something new in case I looked trampy. Of course now that I'm a cougar and know what I like, I ask for it and 10 times out of 10 the guy in question is all for it. What a great time to be 40....LOL
Hi Cameraguyrob :)
ReplyDeleteI think it's great that you are on the web being honest and authentic! It's truly the only way to be in life. Relationships can be really hard! And break ups totally hurt sometimes! But the truth is in life, you have lovers and you have lessons. And while it's true that every lover you have will be there to
"teach" you a lesson (about where you need to grow and evolve). We can choose to get to know ourselves well, so that the next lover we choose teaches us in a more gentle way.
I like to say you can choose a great lover with gentle lessons or a scintillating lover with sever lessons. It's up to you :)
Thanks for sharing yourself with us :) I for one appreciate it!
xo Colette
http://colettekenney.com