So what are peoples opinions on threesomes or orgies or even the current trends in sex in your city?
This has been a growing trend in the city for a few years now. And there are private clubs popping up where you can have free sex with swingers in your area. And sex toy stores are becoming more popular and inviting. Instead of the gross blacked out store, they are now very open and brightly lit.
Even the bondage stores are inviting and open and the old gross people that used to own such stores have been replaced with well informed and friendly staff. And they are open to any questions you have about products. And the products even come with a guarantee. A friggin' guarantee. Of course it is slightly embarrassing when you have to explain what you were doing when you burned out your toy rabbit.
And also sex parties are starting to be more trendy. Those are the ones that they announce the location the day of through a text list of ticket holders and they all converge on it dressed as wildly, and provocatively as possible. Then as the night goes on the party goers fool around and tease each other til its time to go and then they speed out of the parking lot like the place was being raided by a bunch of skin heads. All rushing to get home and try out their new sex partner they found that night.
So I guess the pressing question is have we put too much emphasis on sex? Or have we become more aware of the different ways we can be aroused and titillated? or have we put too much pressure on ourselves to find different ways to get off? Does anyone still enjoy the old missionary position any more?
So this was kind of a deep thought blog but I would like to know what you think.
Ciao for now
Well cameraguy it's difficult, to say the least, in a small town. The only store here that has sex toys and DVD's has the front windows covered in dark paper.
ReplyDeleteI'm not much into free sex etc but I know there were swingers in my hometown years ago when I was in grade school. It was something that was hidden and secretly laughed at behind the people's backs.
I'm a little old-fashioned in that I believe in monogamy, which is why I'm single. If I'm going to be having sex with the same person for decades I want to make sure it's good. You don't go into a shoe store and buy a pair of shoes without trying them on right?
People should be less repressed with their sexuality and one way of doing that, that doesn't include deeking into the bathroom with a new prospect, is self-exploration. Buy a vibrator or &^*) ring or something and find out what we like. I think a lot of people just expect their partner to know what they like and when they don't, give them the kiss-off.
As for emphasis on sex? I don't know if there is enough emphasis on quality rather than quantity.
I think that this is a new time for experimenting and playing sexually. And discovering one's self. And that of your partners.
ReplyDeleteMonogamy is a good way to go. No doubts about that. Having one partner lets you concentrate on how to make them happy and what makes you happy.
Sure experiment and have fun with toys. It all makes the experience more fun.