So where did we leave off?
Ah yes the spending habits of my ex and the fact she spent 10 thousand in three months.
That brings us to the next part of the path to higher understanding that those who you think you know have a lot of secrets.
So the greed of my ex starts to come forth and I start to see how desperate she is to screw every last dime out of me.
We get our lawyers and start our process for the legal seperation. That wasn't the hard part. The hard part was learning that my lawyer only did what she was told to do and didn't have an interest for my best interest. Just the quick resolution to the large paper workload that is the legal seperation. So she in fact didn't give any advice to the right path of the legal forest to get a fair shake in the massive debt load that was my married life that my ex was trying to stick me with.
Time out here. Yes it seems like this story is one sided but at the same time I am trying to be sensitive to all the tiny little actions and words that are like the arrows searching for their prey. Inflicting the most amount of pain and outright hatred while wearing a smile as she looks at the carcas bleeding out.
Hmmm I might have a flair for the dramatic in this rant after all. Hehehe
So back to the story.
Now both of us had come to an agreement. She wanted to move the kids to Waterloo with the 3rd love in one year. It all came down to the wire on the day of her moving and I settled with the best interest for the kids.
Now this is when you will ask the question " What the F**K were you thinking to allow that to happen?" . Ok here it goes. All my family is in Ontario. All her family is here. Her new guys family is all there.
She, as I have pointed out earlier, had neglected to pay bills which in turn does a remarkable thing to credit ratings. They disappear. I don't have the credit to get a simple credit card to this day. Yup. I can actually have 20 thousand dollars in the bank but when it comes to ask for a simple 1 thousand dollar credit card they actually look poorly upon this.
So also the simplicity of Waterloo and the lower cost of living and education was a great deal of importance as well and it seemed the best decision for my kids.
So for now they are living there and I call my kids when I can.
My ex on the other hand decided that she wasn't going to work for a year and stay with the kids. Yup. She's taking a year off from working and I have to work my butt off to keep afloat.
According to the courts because she was working part time for the year we were seperated this is legal cause to make the amount of the percentage towards the kids extra curricular activities greatly more in her favor. It actually comes to me paying %76 of all these costs.
The question this leaves me is where is the incentive for her to go back to work and do something constructive. Instead she is spending all her money that could be used to buy herself a new place. Maybe to sort out her head. Be alone for a bit to find herself. But no, that's not gonna happen.
This brings us to the present. I am currently awaiting for the courts to finalize my divorce and be free of this woman. The kids will be visiting soon and I can't wait to see them.
This is a short version of what went on in this year. I didn't tell you the details that would turn your stomach. Wondering what the heck is wrong with her head.
So now you have a synopsis of what I have been through this year. I will be blogging about real things and in the present from now on.
I know what your thinking. This guys thoughts and his writing format is terrible. Well that's what your get when someone who has always been learning different when it comes to english decides to write something. I'm not stupid but the way things appear to be correct format to me doesn't look or read correctly to others. Some days I am suprised I'm not wearing a hockey helmet out of hockey season and riding the special bus.
This is where I leave you for this entry. You know a little of my past year and will try to impress you with witty stories in the future.
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